Sexually, it's almost impossible to shock her. An Aquarius woman sees herself and her sexual partner as separate entities, both living their own lives, who sometimes meet and get intertwined and then go their separate ways again. A Gemini man is a multi-faceted and sometimes androgynous man who can be a genius with varied interests and unusual talents, or he can be someone so filled with nervousness and anxiety he gets impatient waiting for anything. Often it's a bit of both. Gemini is a mutable air sign , which means he's adaptable, flexible, can change his mind in an instant, and be or do whatever a situation requires.
He's audacious, experimental, exploratory, fickle, easily distracted, easily directed, unpredictable, and as capricious as the clouds. The world is like a candy store to the Gemini man, and he wants to sample every treat that catches his eye. He's charming, witty, curious, always up for a good time, and has a wild sense of humor. He's cheerful, loves people, has a positive approach to life, and can easily make friends. Emotions don't compute , but he's open to new experiences, seeks variety, and lives in the now. Small talk is his forte, and he loves to hear and pass on the least bit of trivia, the latest piece of gossip, or the newest technique - anything that will feed his brain and keep him busy.
Sex for the Gemini man is just sex, and there's little chance of him confusing it with anything else. He doesn't read anything into it and has no expectations about the future. He's not into the physical or emotional aspects of sex. It's mental and verbal stimulation that turn him on.
He brings his curiosity, gift of gab, and wacky sense of humor into the bedroom. He'll tease, talk dirty, and role play.
He's a swinger, has no problems with one-night stands, and is ideally suited for a woman who's free enough to let her hair down, go a little crazy, and talk about wild and wonderful sexual things. In bed, as in life, he seeks novelty more than heavy breathing passion and wants to keep things light, friendly, fun, and impersonal. They can text, tweet, email, and talk on the phone endlessly. When together, they'll laugh, exchange clever repartee, and engage in light conversation.
With so much talk, you'd think they might find it hard to get around to the sex bit. However for this couple, friendly banter is foreplay and when they do make it into bed, their conversations don't end. Their sexual activity is eclectic and fun. I am bad at expressing but with him i learnt it. He used to like me too but then our ways parted because of our families issues.
He used to express and make me feel like i never felt that way before and most of all he respected our relation. I have loved him so much, for so long, so completely, that I wish I could be whoever it is that the Aquarius needs. I'm an Aquarius woman that loves a Scorpio man. This article was so us, but he stung me too many times..
I ended up changing my number to keep myself away from him and vice versa. I hope I come across an evolved Scorpio one day bc we truly are the best for each other, in my opinion. The laughs, random moments and faith I had in us were almost worth all the tears. The shit sucks bc I feel like I will be going through the motions forever. I had so many more moments and words I wanted to share with him. So in your opinion what would be the best compatible sign in terms of sun, moon, and rising for a scorpio sun, leo rising, aquarius moon? I'm an Aquarius and had relations with a Scorpio and we just got back in each other's grace's.
I miss her, love her the list can go on. But she's in a relationship yet our history kept us in thought of each other through the years we lost I haven't found no woman in my past relationships worth my heart, time and love more than she do and I want her back and want to rekindled the romance we once encountered. But how can I make that possible. I love her. Blues is when a woman leaves you, but also when she comes back.
I mean, better. God Bless You the writer you are extremely talented. This is extremely accurate. We are going on 5 years now and extremely connected mentally and now more attached emotionally. My Aquarius boyfriend can be very distant sometimes. There are days when I think everything is great but days I overthink things and feel bad. Any advice? Is this typical for a Scorpio woman and Aquarius man? Thank you for writing this wonderful piece. We are both so strong and so fragile at the same time.
I want to say we are both extreme embodiments of our signs. I am a very emotional and intense person and need a lot of attention and physical closeness, time, and affection. My aqua man on the other hand is very withdrawn, he cares but does not express it much. He can go days without speaking to me and even longer without seeing me - he likes his space and privacy very much. It has taken me a full year to realize just how truly slow moving he is but how great his intentions are.
I can be patient and supportive but only for so long. But in the mean time it all feels worth it. I just need to catch my downward spiral thinking and intense emotions that work me up over nothing. This was incredible thank you. I understood every part completely. You really know your stuff. Deepest explaination iv ever read of both sign,it makes me curious to what your sign is As an aqua, never been attracted to a scorpio until in the recently. My long term relationship with a virgo came to an end sometime ago, and that was due to other issues, we had a strong mental connection but not much beyond that.
I decided to end it, did not want to waste anymore time on something broken. And I guess one thing i do hate about being an aqua is sometimes living too much in my mind and completely forgetting about my heart and how I really feel. I am unsure about starting a relationship with a scorp now, as I feel am still getting back on my feet after the breakup, and need to focus my energy on myself for a bit.
I don't like leading a person on, and would like to give all of myself to relationship. I agree with not giving us aquas too much space and time apart. When we are alone too long, and I have experienced this, I end up been drawn to the latter, my mind wins, and I start over-analyzing things. At this moment we can begin to feel cold and distant, and become unsure of our emotions altogether because of all the over-analyzing. I have a very close relationship with my mum, who is a scorp.
So I kinda speak their language a little bit!. I think there are two sides to scorps. When they are in secure situation, where there is stability, they know where things are going and their needs are being met. When there are in an insecure situation where non of that is happening, you better run for the hills. Scorps get a bad rep, but they actually really kind and giving, and most of the time don't get that back in return.
They deserve so much more. I would say aqua and scorp relationship can be challenging because of communication. I think aquas should only pursue this relationship if they are in it for the long run and are willing to provide a secure situation for the scorp meet their needs. I have asked Andrea and it would seem she is no longer sure what she wants to do or where her life is taking her. She is also unsure of her feelings for me which was a little hard to hear. I have agreed to be patient and see where it goes, we are still messaging, talking and meeting regularly and I am just keeping it light and fun.
Have you talked in detail about what happened during the trip? Maybe the Aquarius is experiencing culture shock from being gone so long and is now adjusting to her home life. Try bringing back some charm, take them on a nice date. Get them a thoughtful gift only you could pull off. It sounds like you have had a bad experience. If two people do not understand each other's communication style, then it will not work or gain momentum. Sometimes Aquarius wants to try something to see if it works but the real momentum doesn't take off.
Sometimes Scorpio comes into the relationship with too much expectation and bombs the possibility of growth. Both need patience. This is to answer David from florida. I know you posted 6 months ago, and hopefully you see this.. So you say your scorpio lady left when you were going through a bout of depression, im guessing you became distant, and did not communicate, us scorpios hate that, because we lean on our partners for emotional support not run away and we want you to do the same or at least communicate..
We hate anything hot and cold. Its not good to give a scorpio too much space without communication, we will move on, a scorpio woman needs to feel loved and wanted, if your in an out of her life she will see you as not being consistant and leave, and may become upset and never talk to you again. Now if she is showing up to places she knows she will run into you, then she probably wants you to say something to her, if she never wanted to speak to you again she would avoid running into..
Well thats what i would do Your message was so long ago so you may not see this, but I would love to know how things turned out with you and the Scorpio that you were afraid to let your guard down with. My Aquarius who I had been casually dating for 12 Months went away on a trip for 2 Months, we agreed to message every few days but not excessively.
Aquarius and Aquarius Compatibility
I concur with this, if I could go back to the beginning of her trip away I would have done things differently! Now I guess I will just have to see if things can get back to where they were! I would also like to point out that some of you Aquarius on here already know you're not going to continue long lasting relationships with the people you're dating, so why not let them go now. Why play around with someones emotions stringing them along for months although you know at this moment you dont want anything long term..
As a Scorpio I will never understand this, Some advice if a scorpio tells you they love you, please be honest with them if you dont, we do not like to waist our times. Also an Aqua stated that giving to much space to them is not good, dont understand that considering Aquarius disappear, they take their space, so what are you supposed do stalk them, that makes no sense.. I am a Scorpio woman and have been dating an Aquarius off an on for 10 years.. I have finally decided to let it go. We were 24 and 25 when we began dating we are now 33 and No kids no ring, im done trying to figure this dude out.
As a woman I can not chase a man and when I wait for the Aquarius male to take the lead, he never does and this has strung out over a decade.
Why Are Scorpios and Aquarius Such a Powerful Match?
I love him deeply, and have professed my love, but he is like a robot no emotion. He tells me he loves me with no action. It cant possibly take an Aquarius this long to figure out what they want. I dont know, im just afraid I will wake up and be 44 and still going with the flow as he likes it. He seems to put all his energy into his work.
He talks about trying to get him self finacially stable, so that he can buy himself a house, but im confused as to why he is working so hard to establish a life, to what, still be alone, not like he is working towards having a family. I dont get it.
With my income and his we could be living great and already have a house. He is just so backwards sometimes, he talks about me and him having a baby, but shouldn't there be a commitment first? After 10 years we shouldnt be wondering where are we? Im confused along with his family and mine considering they have watched this play out for years, his parents are like my parents his siblings are my brothers and sisters, we've gone threw sooo much , but he still has never reassured me as to what he wants from this, when I poor out my emotions he disappears then reappears like nothing happened, never addressing this obvious problem.
He made a statement while we were on the phone the other day saying " love is something he tries to avoid" , im like "what" love is the greatest thing you could ever experience in this life and it will continue to live on even after your gone. His sister told me he was crazy about a girl in high school, he went all out on Valetines day and bought her all kinds of things, then she made a fool of him and cheated. Out of the 10years we have been together he has never bought me anything for Valentines day. I cant help, but wonder is this guy still hurt from a lil high school relationship he had as a teen and taking it out on me.
I know they say Aquas hold on to the past, but geesh i feel as though im being punished for the girl that hurt him in high school, im like get over it already your My mother spoke to him and she said she never heard a man talk so loving about a woman before, like he is sooo in love with me. I was confused by this considering he never put in any effort to make me happy and he is rarely there when i need him due to him being detached.
All this does is just confuse me even more. Being a Scorpio I want to love and figure out why a person acts the way they do, and possibly help them fix the problem, I hate that I have wasted 10 years of my life for some one im not even sure cares.. Yes, there is always more to astrology. It's really based in math, so a couple of adjustments here and there can make a huge difference. For some, they're more of a cusp than having a clear cut sign, and those are some of the most interesting and bizarre people. I wish you well. It sounds like there are some serious complications in this relationship and when you wrote this 6 months ago, it wasn't quite a formal deal.
Yes, the water like energy of obsession can be difficult for an Aquarius to deal with. It's that squared energy from the zodiac circle that makes things difficult for the Aquarian. You both like the Scorpio and their charms, but there's also something that really, really sucks. Such a lengthy comment. This was written by no means to trivialize compatibility or generalize it. There are successful Aquarius and Scorpio couples out there, and they do often run into the same problems and also joys. To each their own at the end of the day, some Scorpios just may not end up liking that odd mysterious energy they create with an Aquarius-folk, but some crave it pretty stark ravishingly mad.
The big reason? Both of these signs are misunderstood. It seems both you and your Scorpio never got far in understanding an Aquarius, and that's fine and fair.
Why Scorpio and Aquarius Are Attracted to Each Other
But if there is ever animosity toward a sign in the zodiac, that means something more about the person and the way they perceive the world, rather than certain signs being annoying, boring, or evil. My own grandparents were a Scorpio and Aquarius, and sure not everything was perfect about their romance -- but to be honest, it was about as perfect as it gets. My aquarius however turned my black and white world spinning with colors and voice.
We were friends for a couple of years before we turned romantic and we both want to be with eachother for the long run. We have the same ambition and dreams and we know we both need eachother to achieve them : Communication is a big one for us We moved fast really fast at first and it was hard understanding eachother.
However now we read eachother like open books. My aquarius is so smart and often I feel maybe challenged like I need to be smarter. His first wife was Aquarius and he started cheating on her 6 months in. And this was not ideal for him. Scorpios crave loyalty and want stability and faithfulness in their relationships. If Scorpio cheats, something is terribly wrong. His ex was cold, emotionally detached and placed everyone else in the world on the same level or above my Scorpio.
Big no no for both of us. Scorpio people have irreverent and kind of sick senses of humor. We joke around many times by saying exactly the opposite of how we feel. Or saying things that not remotely pc. So then it just becomes fun to push their buttons. Look, ALL Scorpio people want a partner that cherishes them above all others, lusts after them, respects them, and allows them to let their guard down and be truly themselves. Lastly, this is not meant to offend. Other Scorpio people with different charts may adore Aquarius. And i can guarantee that any Aquarius reading this would not enjoy our company, either.
Things just go that way sometimes. That's why I loathe articles that generalize compatibility. There is literally no way that one can predict these things. Im aqua and the man I'm with is scorpio, they do alter their personality in the beginning to be cool, calm and collected to draw you in but inside there emotions are deep running waters and I'm not lying, after they settled they slowly become obsessive, they dont have control over their emotions to the point they become possessive and jealous nd wants their partner all to themselves, they will start asking questions, checking your phone book etc.
It's so nice, i do love my creepy men but its also dangerous, because they are really subtle and observe everything and sum up everything, they are silent thinkers, and you dont know if or where they could follow you bcs they are like fit for detective work. Im flattered that he's obsessed and its because of my character, he enjoys my company, it says scorpios are selective and its nice to know that im special. But having thought it through it wont be good in the long run, as they are dead serious about love and how dangerous will it get. I mean oj simpson is a water sign and look wt happend.
But i wont even go there cs its not like that. Nevertheless there is so much positive, he treats me like royalty. They know how to keep you, you name it and the scorpio will do and even throw in surprise romantic moments. From opening the car door for you to making sure you got more of the bed duvet cover on your side to keep warm.
Tell me thats not sweet. I hope this is clear. As an Aquarian woman who has dated a Scorpio I must say this article is spot on for the most part. All the qualities Aquarius women desire and admire. Their downside and what made me fall out with my Scorpio mate is their obsessive possessiveness which can be quite intense and a major turn-off to an Aquarius woman. I am Aquarius Scorpio man with an Aquarius woman.
Leo Man and Aquarius Woman – Love Compatibility, Marriage
I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect partnership, on so many levels. We're best friends first and have invested a lot of effort into understanding one another. I'm a female with sun sign Pisces and several placements in Scorpio as well Aquarius. I'm married to Aquarius guy, think it's the perfect blend. Because Aquarius guys not only need plain physical experience, also tenderness, non-extreme feelings, cuddling and feminine aura, which most Scorpio women simply lack. They can crush a man with restrictions, jealousy and temper.
But Aquarius guys are independent, they need balance. I am confused with your use of the term "monogynous," meaning the male has one female only, but the female has several male mates. It seems like "manogamous" would make a lot more sense, but maybe I'm not getting something here? After a few months of just being friends, the Aquarius woman in my life, became my other half.
We often spoke for hours on end, and the more we spoke, the deeper we felt for one another. She's changed how I think about the world I live in. It's just so obvious how much we care for each other. I've honestly never met another human being like her We gave each other space, even when we didn't want to, and that made getting to know each other even more magical.
I am an aqua women married to my Scorpio husband for 10years together 15yrs. Hi, what it worked for me was to change the focus from others to me. If you really think that your problem solving and knowledge are better than others and I'm sure they are , you should apply this natural talent in what you love without asking attention from others. Moreover there isn't a written rule that you should trust others, there is a written rule to trust yourself and your mind and your body the most you can.
We love to think that all the people in the world like criticism or compliments, it's not true, most people love to be recognized for who they are we are not better or worse than anyone else. If you have such a war going on inside you, appreciate it because it means that your mind is finding the truth and change your mind so you can become better.
Have patience, everything will be ok. I am a Scorpio woman, dating an Aquarian who is actually a lot younger than I am, and I can say it is absolutely wonderful. Unexpected and magical. This article is spot on. Every coming day is even harder for me than the previous.
Say a aqua woman has been dating a mature in age scorps man for many months although has known her before, and he then on a one to one moment tells her he loves her,. We met a few years ago and clicked instantaneously. The electricity and energy there in that moment were just high and strong. He didn't think the same and started chasing me.
We had an awkward date. Ok, this was it. I thought. But he kept talking to me and asking things like "do you never fight for what you want", telling me he was single, available, etc. Eventually I didn't show interest anymore, he was just too intense for me. He was an exchange student btw and after that, he went back home.
Years later he comes back on a work trip, reaches out to me out of the blue This was just something we "had" to do, I thought. Now you're leaving, fine by me. But then a while after he's gone, he tells me how he had fallen for me and how he liked me since the day we met. That he's been questioning everything in his life, and wants to come and get me. I'm scared. I read the comments and noticed how serious scorps are when they are in love I think I'm ready to give my freedom to someone like him. I think I might enjoy it. However, I have been on and off with my first love and only, so far for more than ten years.
I feel like I'm ready to move on as I keep coming back to him just because he's always there for me. He loves me and is waiting for my "aquarius phase of trying things out" to pass so I can go back and we'll be together forever. I have told him countless times this is not it and that he should not wait for me. He refuses to believe me. I love him, but I don't see myself with him. I'm not with him because I always get bored and run away. We are a "perfect match", zodiac compatibility-speaking Sorry but i disagree with this article Your articles are so biased.
Sorry to be rude but i cant lie. Im spending quality time with scorpio man at his luxurious apartment, He's responsible and well kept, im impressed with what he has achieved and the way he is, he is powerful which the above article mentions. He is keen on me and wont let go after all this time but Everything just seems perfect or too perfect. I guess i have never experienced perfect before.. Intimacy is great we have a great connection. What do you expect i dont form relationships with the average man.
It's as if this article was written specifically for me; to guide me, and for me to understand the amazing jack ass Aquarius I seem to be drawn to, and i think may the one; my heart, universal signs, logic and even practically are screaming out he's the one - but my ego, pride and built in walls refuses to chase after him - even though we seem to be enjoying it. I'll get back to this when we've evolved from the foreplay friendship flirtation going on. It describes me and what I know of him to a T; it is what I'm going through with him right now. My scorpio man is away on a trip atm, he does keep in touch and tells me he misses me, but with this time apart, i feel like i have lost interest and dont feel enthusiastic as i would, he is perfect but i cant help but feel i cant be bothered, maybe becs he is absent.
Advise- Never give aquarius too much time apart, she will wander and may even lose interest in you. JFK the president was a Gemini. This article is riddled with errors. Scorpio is a strong feminine energy- the energies of the zodiac go every other - masculine, feminine. Virgo- feminine. Libra- masculine. And so forth. All the water signs and earth signs are feminine. All the fire signs and air signs are masculine. Get it together :. See of remaining comments. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.
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What does it mean to be a water-bearer and a phoenix? What should guide a relationship between these signs? What's the benefit of dating someone with a different sign? Personality Traits of Scorpio and Aquarius Scorpio. Your trust in him will turn him on because it means he has managed to connect with you on a mental level which is essentially what he desires.
Inside the Minds of Scorpios and Aquarius Scorpios have busy minds, easily distracted by the noise of life. Aquarius and Scorpio need to go on private dates, away from the hustle and bustle. The two must be able to have good conversation and unravel each other slowly. Remember, these two are attracted to each other because of the great conversation they can share in. Make sure that if you're going to a pub, you choose one that isn't too noisy or busy. Taking an Aquarius on a date to a botanical garden will make him feel calm and serene.
Seeing the scientific names of the plants will allow him to gain knowledge on what you both love. A splendid relationship, sexy, magical and passionate. Yet a lively and ambitious rapport can develop as long as he gives her some space and she gives him the time of day to develop his career. Both approach relationships with a very open mind. A great relationship will develop between them, not deeply passionate but completely honest and mutually creative. She adores his seductive charm and elusive nature. But he will become addicted to her, so if her freedom is at stake she's likely to run for the hills.
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